Who are "friends", Why are they called "friends", What are "friends", What does "friendship" even freaking mean? Are there any rules by which friends/friendship are defined? There may be some rules, regulations created independently, they may not be universal, but followed within a certain group of friends, but is there a particular way a friendship relationship works...???? According to me there isn't and that is the beauty of it.
There was a recent incident in my life which I have experienced for the very first time in my entire life. I couldn't believe it when I heard about it and I'm still unable to digest it, forget swallowing it. Over a period of time I kind off managed to let go off it, but I couldn't even fathom it that there are certain people who I guess do not have the understanding of what it means to be a friend. I am just shocked that such individuals exist and it really irritates that I spent a good amount of time and because of this irrational, immature and childish behaviour, I have started disliking this person and actually hating.
I always thought this person was a good friend, and this person's behaviour just irks me no end. Especially when I came to know that this person was holding grudges of past incidents the entire time. How can one be friends which such a person? And also this is a repeat since this unfriending has happened once before. This time it was like we were given a second chance at being this persons friend, I don't want any fucking chance with a person who does not understand the basics of being a friend. This persons expectations from a friend are something out of this universe. Its like we didn't meet his expectations as per his criteria. Like in the corporate world we didn't meet our boss's KRAs. :).
You gotta take a break from being in close quarters with such a person, you never know what grudge he/she must be holding against you. It like school teachers who know about their good students and the mischievous ones and maintain a record of them. All I can say is, its too bad that this person has lost good people because of his/her shallow attitude towards friendship.I don't think this person ever understood the word friendship, neither its meaning.
We are living in the 21st century, modern times which are way ahead of the old times when life was slow and bit relaxed. Now its more fast paced, you have to catch up to speed or be left behind. In such times, when you are too busy with your own lives, you tend to not keep in touch, nor message or talk to your friends, even your family members at times. We just do not get the time to do other things when we are busy living our lives. And in between when you receive a message from your friend, you don't go hostile on him/her and get rude in your reply. That behaviours is just fucking insane. Who does that??? It shows that this person is so shallow and immature to not understand the dynamics of friendship. And all this because we "didn't keep in touch". What bull shit man!!!! seriously. We may have not met in person, but with Facebook, Whatsapp in our phones we have kept in touch. Wishes on your anniversay, birthday messages through Whatsapp, Facebook, etc. Social Media has brought us a medium where we do not need to be physically present, I know it sucks this way..., but with our busy schedules, the least we can do is say "Hi" or send birthday wishes through social media.
Im so livid just writing this blog, its making me crazy. Thinking of the moments spent with this person and in the end he/she turns out to be a complete "CHOOTH", a total asshole. Whenever there were plans made by this dickhead, me and my wife couldn't make it for genuine reasons, its not like we were making excuses to not meet.. We were busy with prior engagements. Just because we couldn't spend time in person this does not give him the right to be rude to us who have considered you as a good friend. Its ok, you unfriending me and my wife on social media, It wasn't any worth while it lasted. A complete waste, all the time spent with you could have been spent with other friends who matter the most.
Its shameful that this person actually showed his/hers true colors. Im glad this came out in the open. I have decided to completely not keep in touch and stay away from such kind of people who do not understand the true meaning of friendship. Especially this person who has ruined the moments which were spent together. Would like to erase my memories of this person of all mediums which have been captured through me. Such a worthless waste of fucking time. So livid right now, might actually break something....
Its not a big deal losing a friend, I have many who would still be happy to see a message/email after months/years of not keeping in touch. That's what friendship is all about, which is worthwhile and meaningful. We all have our fights. quarrels, etc with our friends, and like mature individuals we let go of these small thorns. This is because our friendship roots go deep, which can never be uprooted. Friendships go through highs and lows, good times and bad times, its how we deal and overcome it. This is what makes our friendship stronger day-by-day. Without such friends our life would have no meaning, its worthless living our lives without such friends.
This blog is dedicated to all my friends, best friends, close friends, work friends, all who I consider as a friend and all those who consider me as a friend. Thanks for being an important part of my life, I know that you guys are there when I need you and that I will never be disappointed till my last breath.
There was a recent incident in my life which I have experienced for the very first time in my entire life. I couldn't believe it when I heard about it and I'm still unable to digest it, forget swallowing it. Over a period of time I kind off managed to let go off it, but I couldn't even fathom it that there are certain people who I guess do not have the understanding of what it means to be a friend. I am just shocked that such individuals exist and it really irritates that I spent a good amount of time and because of this irrational, immature and childish behaviour, I have started disliking this person and actually hating.
I always thought this person was a good friend, and this person's behaviour just irks me no end. Especially when I came to know that this person was holding grudges of past incidents the entire time. How can one be friends which such a person? And also this is a repeat since this unfriending has happened once before. This time it was like we were given a second chance at being this persons friend, I don't want any fucking chance with a person who does not understand the basics of being a friend. This persons expectations from a friend are something out of this universe. Its like we didn't meet his expectations as per his criteria. Like in the corporate world we didn't meet our boss's KRAs. :).
You gotta take a break from being in close quarters with such a person, you never know what grudge he/she must be holding against you. It like school teachers who know about their good students and the mischievous ones and maintain a record of them. All I can say is, its too bad that this person has lost good people because of his/her shallow attitude towards friendship.I don't think this person ever understood the word friendship, neither its meaning.
We are living in the 21st century, modern times which are way ahead of the old times when life was slow and bit relaxed. Now its more fast paced, you have to catch up to speed or be left behind. In such times, when you are too busy with your own lives, you tend to not keep in touch, nor message or talk to your friends, even your family members at times. We just do not get the time to do other things when we are busy living our lives. And in between when you receive a message from your friend, you don't go hostile on him/her and get rude in your reply. That behaviours is just fucking insane. Who does that??? It shows that this person is so shallow and immature to not understand the dynamics of friendship. And all this because we "didn't keep in touch". What bull shit man!!!! seriously. We may have not met in person, but with Facebook, Whatsapp in our phones we have kept in touch. Wishes on your anniversay, birthday messages through Whatsapp, Facebook, etc. Social Media has brought us a medium where we do not need to be physically present, I know it sucks this way..., but with our busy schedules, the least we can do is say "Hi" or send birthday wishes through social media.
Im so livid just writing this blog, its making me crazy. Thinking of the moments spent with this person and in the end he/she turns out to be a complete "CHOOTH", a total asshole. Whenever there were plans made by this dickhead, me and my wife couldn't make it for genuine reasons, its not like we were making excuses to not meet.. We were busy with prior engagements. Just because we couldn't spend time in person this does not give him the right to be rude to us who have considered you as a good friend. Its ok, you unfriending me and my wife on social media, It wasn't any worth while it lasted. A complete waste, all the time spent with you could have been spent with other friends who matter the most.
Its shameful that this person actually showed his/hers true colors. Im glad this came out in the open. I have decided to completely not keep in touch and stay away from such kind of people who do not understand the true meaning of friendship. Especially this person who has ruined the moments which were spent together. Would like to erase my memories of this person of all mediums which have been captured through me. Such a worthless waste of fucking time. So livid right now, might actually break something....
Its not a big deal losing a friend, I have many who would still be happy to see a message/email after months/years of not keeping in touch. That's what friendship is all about, which is worthwhile and meaningful. We all have our fights. quarrels, etc with our friends, and like mature individuals we let go of these small thorns. This is because our friendship roots go deep, which can never be uprooted. Friendships go through highs and lows, good times and bad times, its how we deal and overcome it. This is what makes our friendship stronger day-by-day. Without such friends our life would have no meaning, its worthless living our lives without such friends.
This blog is dedicated to all my friends, best friends, close friends, work friends, all who I consider as a friend and all those who consider me as a friend. Thanks for being an important part of my life, I know that you guys are there when I need you and that I will never be disappointed till my last breath.
